Ghussa

[Afia]

Re: Ghussa

^
well...in our case its the other way round then! :p

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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@Impulse

guys just go quiet when they get angry…thats wot ive noticed. they give the silent treatment and thats the worst

That’s because guys, especially in Britain, are raised to think emotions are something to deal with on your own. Never show fear, anger, or anything really other than compassion.

[niyal]

Re: Ghussa

u mean silent whispers by george micheal.

[Qrius]

Re: Ghussa

I do different things at different times. I usually don't show anger to others. I keep the things within myself and then go else where and say urgh and hold my hairs. Sometimes i write things down and some times i cry and some times i wait until the other person is feeling alright and then i tell them what they did to make me angry. Sometimes i just tell myself that i'll talk to the person later and then i forget.

[lastknightess]

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I blow up every rarely, and when i do I almost always regret it...coz i end up feelin reaaaal guilty.

So...I just try and talk it out with them and if they provoke me further i close the topic, and take out my anger in the gym and try to work through what ever is bothering me on my own.

[Mr_Bombastic]

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simple : BREAK UP THE BOMB N BLOW IT !!!

means .. my frienz find me agressive too :S .. but i cant make it any better. its just i try to calm down and keep my car kit/bat outa my car :P

but at jobs .. silent treatment do the best ;) .. specialy to boss/managers

p/s: some desi anty told my mom to use some black pepper kinda thing to get rid of it .. though it didnt work on me nor my dad lol

[Aish]

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@mAd_ScIeNtIsT

That’s because guys, especially in Britain, are raised to think emotions are something to deal with on your own. Never show fear, anger, or anything really other than compassion.

lol esp. in britain? what diff does it make haha

[Aish]

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@Impulse

guys just go quiet when they get angry…thats wot ive noticed. they give the silent treatment and thats the worst

yah. i hate that

[Princess_Fiona]

Re: Ghussa

I never get angry.. may be once a year :(
but Allah bachayay if i get angry once.. i just start shout, crying ,, start throwing stuff all over.. :(

[sadzzz]

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i just stay quiet... give myself two choices... (1) if i yell back i'll only create a bigger mess (2) by staying quiet, things will be back to normal within 5-10 min and id forgotten why i was angry in the first place

[Sharaabi]

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Say the darood. It kills the ghussa instantly.

[phatima]

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with siblings i hit them and throw stuff at them and scream..with friends i just smack them or tell them to shutup (jokingly, ofcourse ) but friends don’t usually get on my nerves…with my parents..ehhhh sometimes i fight back and mock the way they talk and i know it’s really rude, just sometimes i get really heated up :(..usually i just shutup and just keep nodding keep nodding. you don’t necessarily have to listen when being lectures by an adult, but make sure you look down and just nod…nod nod nod…

[Mr_Bombastic]

Re: Ghussa

its one of thos days ..... lesee kis bicharey ki shamet aaaati hai !!!

[aahmed]

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@PyariCgudia

Everyone gets really mad at their loved ones. Once in a while. I get mad at them nearly every darn day.

I shouldn’t feel so much ghussa but I do. What do you guys do when you’re feeling like ripping out someone’s liver?

Nobody is important enough to make you angry…

[Sohaib]

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It depends ke ghussa aa kiss pe raha hai. Sometimes I wont bother letting it out and somtimes I will.