I understand but what is done is done now. He doenst have the same feelings for her as he used at this point and that much is obvous by the posts you have made.
He may not have wanted to a divorce at that point but emotionally he has moved on now, she hasnt. He may have loved her at that point but he doesnt anymore.
If she had a medical condition back then, how is she now? Is she better? Furthermore, knowing she has a medical condition do you think its right for your friend to be with his ex-wife when he has no intentions of ever marrying her again?
She may have had issues but that just makes your friend look even worse. :( He knows his ex-wife has problems and is still playing with her? Yikes.
wow, that is some serious support for a sister you haven't even met.
We don't want to hurt our friend by telling him "she is not your wife any more"
They both did not agree to the divorce.
Strange thing about this madical is when some one describe it ever for a 3rd person
you feel like person describing has issues.
Let me eleborate more, when my friend use to tell me about her wife's
apisodes of that conditions and thing she use to say and do,
I honestly though that my frined was nuts believing in super natural.
Till I met girl and her family, they say she had a condition.
Ammmm I am not sure that is she still show sign of that condition.
Again, I don't want to tuch that subject with my frined. Specilly when I was the
one convinceing him there is no such thing as being possesed.
He was quiet shaken when I first met him. He him self sounded like he was on
the border of sanity and insaninty.
But I posted it to get some ideas how his change of heart need to be looked at.
I don't think he him self is totally aware of it.
Amir, they both don't ragard it as divorce. Their families do. Infact guys family kind of
know that he is keeping in touch with the girl.
One groups of molvis said its not a divorce other group said it is.
Girl is not concerned about God or sin, she is more scared of her family
Thats why she gave in on first plcae.