Re: Gher wali bahi wali
I am not justifying my friend's action here. Neither I know how far they go in there meeting.
But one thing is for sure that they both did not agree to this divorce decision.
It was imposed on them by mosque. Like a loaded gun some go off accidentally. That sort of divorce.
They took "fatwas" from different masjids, one said its not a divorce other said it is.
So my friend still refer to her as "my wife".
But the point is that girl losing respect in friend's eyes? How come he almost made her into her mistress.
While talking and trying to pursue serious relation.
I agree with most people here, it is messed up situation.
Girl is sort of homely, I don't know when would she realize that and how would she cope.