Gharara on Two Days?

i guess your right…my mehndi gharara is simple chatta patti yellow and pink gharara, and i want to be simple on my mehndi, however family is telling me i should dress up for the mehndi, however i want to be simple that day!
and of course th wedding gharara is red and bhari…i’ve heard that gharara is too much to wear both days…i don’t want to get influenced by people telling me stuff, but its soo darn hard to not listen to them!!! ugghh