a wise person said on this forum once...teh type of things ladies share about their husbands and private matters with one another, guys dont even come close to sharing such stuff with other guys.
I've probably said somethng like that in the past....and I do agree with it. Yet, it sounds like the poor soul who is the subject here is very lonely without friend or family, in a new country with a husband that she likely doesnt know well yet. When she talks about private matters, it should be with her husband or her family but then, she doesnt yet know her husband well and she doesnt have any family here. I can understanding confiding in the one friend that she has. Its not like she's being a chatty gossip with a group of hens kwim?
Probably the best thing to say to her is "things would get better for you more quickly if you talked these thinngs over with your husband" or something like that. Once she sees her hubby as a friend, she will have less need to talk about these things with you.