Getting out of an abusive relationship

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: Getting out of an abusive relationship

@best_friend

I’m engaged. I was actually getting warning signs since 5-6 months and so I was trying to put a distance already. In fact in the last 2-3 months I had taken back up on all the hobbies and activities that I had dropped because of him. But now I don’t feel like doing anything. I have two students coming for tuition and I’m getting so cranky and never in a mood to teach them either. I just go through it as a routine/obligation and their performance is dropping too. Haven’t updated my blog since so many days either. I used to write a diary but I don’t feel like writing either. I’m trying to pull myself out of it but I feel stuck maybe I really should write a pro and cons list.
On top of everything my mother is leaving for a month of two, and no matter how much I don’t want to pull this relationship for the next two months she just doesn’t want to end things up in a hurry. As for me I don’t think this is a hasty decision. I have been thinking and observing since a long time, there is nothing right in this relationship at all. I had even posted a thread here 3-4 months back, I’ve already taken the time to decide.

So why not just cut off all contact with him for those two months. Then officially end it once she gets back.