I need a wifey badly, agar chaar nahein mil saktein to koi baat nahein ek se bhi guzara chal jaaey ga, but my parents think I’m still a baby and mom always says “chora ajak ja, haali taeiN tu vivaaN koi nai karna” every time I bring up the subject, so how do I persuade them? It’s stopping from being as good a Muslim that I can be, can somone give me some advice and Ahadeeth and stuff.
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said
“O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, let him do so, and whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for that will be a shield for him.” (Agreed upon, from the hadeeth of Ibn Mas’ood, may Allaah be pleased with him. Al-Bukhaari, 4778; Muslim, 1400).
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So, the question is, can you afford to get married, meaning can you support a wife - both financially and emotionally? If yes, get married. If not, fast.
get a good looking, athletic, 'prissy' MALE friend to hang out with you a few days.. just make it obvious to your parents you're spending a LOT of time with him.. have him in your room for hours.. walk around hands in hand.. the whole nine yards..
month later.. just broach the subject of marriage again.. i have a feeling they'll be very receptive