Getting Married - good or bad?

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Re: Getting Married - good or bad?

@Disney_Princess

The above just killed it for me. Are you a troll?!

Like Mirch said, expectations will always be there. I will add to that and tell you everyone is going to have expectations of you, whether you are married or not. Now, if you can’t deal with those expectations, then how are you going to get anywhere in life? Forget marriage for a second, even when you’re working, there are expectations of you, how do you deal with them, or propose to deal with them? If you can’t deal with certain expectations which are reasonable, then I suggest for you to take a long hard look at yourself before thinking about marriage.

I guess then it depends what expectations are reasonable, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to expect the husband to provide for his family, to expect the husband not to lie, cheat, go shopping etc, however I think it’s unreasonable to be told what to wear/how to dress as then you’re not really accepted for who you are.