Getting married again.

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Anyone tried having a marriage ceremony again [with the same person ofcourse]?

Is it okay to keep it personal [like inviting no one] or you must have some friends there?

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Why would one have another ceremony?

Has the first one gone topsy turvy ?? and need to renew like MOT lol ..or is it out of love ..and if it is then .. ppl shud be invited to celebrate a 25...50..etc years of happy marriage ..

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lol

in my case, I want to do it coz i didn't like the arrangements on my first ceremony, also we haven't done the civil marriage yet and also coz we were having hard times but now everything has settled down.

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you want to do the nikkah again to the same man? is that even possible in islam?

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yes ma'am but dere z some conditions i think the term is known as halala i think soooo

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Wha? who said anything about "nikkah"? aarrghghgh....just forget about it.

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i think she just means an event where she gets dressed like renewing your vows but without having the nikkah again.

hareem you could get dressed up for your civil ceremony these people just dont get it ...

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no, she doesn't want to have the nikah again. she just wants to have a ceremony again and as she hasnt had her civil marriage so this ceremony could be used to represent that (im guessing)

anyways, to answer your question if you MUST invite ppl or not.. the answer is its totally upto you.. i dont even think anyone has to invite their friends to the first/official wedding but people do cause they want their friends to share in their happiness. but if you want to have a private ceremony just with your hubby then go for it. you are the bride and its upto you and in the first wedding ppl would really be "hurt" or "mad" if you didnt invite them but this time around ifyou dont invite them they shouldnt have a problem.. so its upto you do what you want. and like you said you didnt like arrangements at ur original ceremony so if you are having this ceremony to do things according to your wishes than tht includes the guest list so do as you and your hubby please :)

wish you all the best :)

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so what happens at this civil ceremony? Do you say your vows and exchange rings?

why not have a big wedding anniversary instead? my bhabhi didnt really like her wedding day, so on her 5th wedding anniversary she got all dressed up in her shadi clothes, got her hair and make up done, and my bro wore his sherwani, they got professional photos done, got a beautiful wedding cake and had a huge party at home that only consisted of close family and friends. it was fun!

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There was a similar thread a few days ago.
Some guppans preferred doing a big wedding all over again some preferred a simple one.

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**I think this is a fantastic idea Hareem! This is the perfect way to celebrate a happy marriage and get dolled up.

From your orginal post it seems like you want to keep it personal and not have to invite anyone extra. So that's what you should do. Don't invite anyone extra, just the people who are close to you, even if it ends up being just 10-15 people. **

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Hareem I think it's a wonderful idea. My mums best friend recently 'renewed' her nikkah, there were no more than about 30 people there I hink. Her immediate family and then couples who were friends/family.

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GO for it!

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thanks all for replying...

mizz and ak12

yeah that's exactly what i meant. :)

Afshi

i don't exactly know what happens at a civil marriage but you get registered in a court i guess...i need to find out more details....anyway i liked your idea but we got married in December and i want to have a party in summer.

Gaia and Kurri

i like what you said, i don't wanna call too many people and don't wanna ended up spending too much money.

thanks Reha.

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my other bro and bhabhi had to do a civil ceremony (immigratino issues) so they did it after their rukhsati..but they went themselves....and thank god...cuz the person performing their ceremoney (justice of the peace?) made them do the whole "kiss the bride" thing..lol. i didnt want to see that. lol