I am going to Pakistan after 4 years. I will be staying there for three months as my brother will be getting married as well. taking my both kids with me and my daughter is so excited about going and seeing her chachoo and phupoos. last time she was 1 years old when we went.
i am so scared to go. bad thoughts are coming to my mind. i keep thing what if i die there. something bad will happen to my kids.
previous i had issues and bad experience. i will be seeing those people who had bad impact on my life. now they are out of my life and i will be seeing them pretending that nothing had happened.
is it normal to feel like this especially if going after long time? any one can relate to my feelings?
my friends mum went last week.... she was so scared.. she said... i will jus stay at home i wont go shopping in pak but what if something happens on the way from lahore airport to home... etc she was so worried n depressed... a day before her flight she told her daughter to take care of younger siblings n she gave her all the jewellery n told her which bank account has which password n the amount n bankbalance n to follow always Islam even if m not there to tell u its namaztime etc... so u jus think how depressed n worried she has been ( low bp due to stress) even she got threats from in-laws... on the way to airport she was praying n reciting something islamic n dont know what thing, anyway ... yesterday i called her n she was soooo hpppy to be there n she jus forgot everything dat was on her mind... n she told me she goes shopping everyday n she even saw her in-laws but jus said salam n walked away.
What m trying to tell u is...its normal these days...Dont worry everything is gonna be fine... when u arrive.. u will forget everything... dont think too much abt it jus try to think abt gud things there ur family n the event ... stay blessed!
Well i didnt know u r staying with in-laws... n for 3 months :s hmm okk
Wat r u afraid of? Will they hit u? Will they try to depress u? Wateva they try to do... u need to be careful n dont be naive ... n they know ur family is there too... so they wont do anything dat dangerous ... i dont know how ur inlaws are but i heard a lot abt pak inlaws :s
Well i didnt know u r staying with in-laws... n for 3 months :s hmm okk
Wat r u afraid of? Will they hit u? Will they try to depress u? Wateva they try to do... u need to be careful n dont be naive ... n they know ur family is there too... so they wont do anything dat dangerous ... i dont know how ur inlaws are but i heard a lot abt pak inlaws :s
my family doesnt live in Pakistan and we all will be travelling.
I am scared of leaving my house here. my in laws are nice people no big issue. i know i will enjoy but my mind if full of different thoughts as this can happen or that can happen. i am also now afraid of long flight to pakistan.
I jus once went to pakistan n dat was ages ago ... dont know how the ppl or inlaws are there but in recent situation n if ur inlaws are nice ppl. i would say... keep in mind dat everything happens for a reason n as i told u dont worry u will be fine... we live in eu or usa n are afraid of going there but think abr the ppl who live there and they r in millions who live there, work there, study there wateva the situation there is! Dont worry abt the flight jus pray dat everything goes well... i have to fly every 2 months to australia it takes at least 24 hours i had this feeling first two times when i flew but after dat nver!!... so jus relax dont worry nothing will happen... everything will be fine. Be happy :D
U r travelling with ur family dont worry luk at me i live alone since m 16 n whenever i travel to australia it takes 24 hours n sometimes 35 hours with stay in some chinese countries n some lost islands where i go alone n all the long way m alone here n there...n sometimes when i have to visit lost island in some lost ocean there, it takes 10 days with ship/ferry to some xyz islands in ocean. Dont worry be brave n trust me ur lill girl will enjoy the flight if u re not afraid