Getting angry n yelling at 2 month old

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Re: Getting angry n yelling at 2 month old

Aww hug back right at ya. Thank you :hugz:

Good luck Asma.

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my baby also had colic so she was always cranky n irritated, your baby is already 2 months, if he is having gas issue or colic it will get better by 3 months.
since you rae breastfeeding so you are not able to keep track how much he is taking milk in one feed, he might take few sips n thn agaiuna fter 45 mins ask for more.
i was not able to breastfeed my baby , i m sure soemone can better help you, but wht i know is atleast feed him 20 mins, if he l be full he will have more peaceful sleep,
and are tou wrapping your baby, i noticed wth my baby when i used to wrap her she used to sleep for longer hours.

and dont worry things will settle down soon inshahallah, in the begginning every new mum faces issue, but the thing is be patient and calm, and ask for help if u can find any from friends and family. all the best :)

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fasting will make your supply drop very quickly. once supply drops its very hard to re-establish it, so i would really, really urge you to not fast during this time and make up your fasts when he's older. focus on yourself and your baby. he is your priority right now and you are his whole world. don't mess with that.

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Everyone has given great advice... I will give one little one

Whenever u feel agitated at the baby... And feel like a reflex slap coming on, put it down in its crib, and leave the room for a min or so. Drink some water... Sit down and take long deep breaths... Count to ten. Get. Ure self together... Think bout how u can handle the situation better... And then go back to the baby.

I had to do this a billion times with my son cuz he had reflux. I mean no sleep at all for the longest time... It's really really difficult... Only this got my through.

Good luck :)

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I know exactly how you feel.
My daughter is 1 year old and still does not sleep thru the nite. She does not have any problem like gas/reflux. She just does not like to eat enough. When she cries or being fussy, I ignore her and let her do whatever she wants. I hope and pray that your baby will start sleeping thru the nite because nothing like having a good 2 hrs nap/sleep.

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^ why don't you try feeding her more food more often instead of ignoring her? babies generally don't cry for the sake of crying...

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my baby is crying alot these days n its because he wants our attention as i am busy in making iftari n husband is reading quran so he shouts alot!
n the other reason is he wants to eat!

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Dude my daughter is 2 and she still wakes up at night!
She eats and is very healthy, mA, but still wakes up atleast twice a night. :smack:

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.hahaha Wendy I m with you baby 18 months still getting up at night for night feeds :cb:

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I don’t even give her milk at night anymore, as per her doctors recommendation, but she still comes running to our bed at 3am asking for duduu

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I know my doc also suggested the same but she is not ready to go back without milk, if I give her water she throws the bottle, now my doc suggested reducing ounces during night thn eventually finish it, let's see

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It's okay if you did that, it doesn't make you a bad mother. You realize that it was wrong. Important thing is to never do t again. The first few months are hard enough already and fasting, i can't imagine how your are doing it. Specially considering how often a two month old has to be fed. Please please don't fast...the Rozas are just too long. With a gap of food that long, you def. won't be making enough milk. The first three motnths uour milk supply is settling down and your body is learning how much milk it needs to produce, fasting for a month will throw that off. I have a 4 month old and I am fasting and not feeling guilty at all. Allah gave us the choice. We are already getting a lot of Sawab by feeding our Babies so don't think you arent doing anything in Ramadan. You are doing something huge and getting lots of Sawab for it inshallah.

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N don't worry your baby's sleeping pattern will change in a few weeks/ months. My daughter was waking up every 45 minutes to 1 hour all night during the first 2 months. I did not feel sane. Kind of felt like a roller coaster. But it does get Better ! Hang in there

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I feed him for 15 mins .. He just don't dring more than that... If I fore him he spits.... N I do swaddle him...
He is not colicky... N gassy... But he is 2months now n things are getting little better...l just hoping tht everything will get ok soon.... Nn I don't have any friend or family... Just my jethani.. But she is alll bz with her life .... But Alhamdulillah I ve got a v good hubby..l so just praying n inshallah everything will b fine ...
thnku for reply :)

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Nopes he is now gassy...mits Judy he wakes up.. But Alhamdulillah things are getting better for night...:)

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inshahallah things will settle down, mostly babies settle down by 3 months, just have patient inshahallah evrything will be settled