Do people ask you, “How come you get along very well with THIS person ?! S/HE is so different than you!!” *whether s/he is a spouse, colleague, friend…etc. *
What common in you and the other person makes you enjoy their company/conversation the most in daily life, specially when apparently people think you are different than them in terms of nature, habits, hobbies…etc. ?!
Once example can be:
Once a man observed that a crow and a dove always used to fly together, away from their own respective group. When once he keenly observed them standing together, he realized that both of them had only one leg to stand on.