Re: Getting a place of your own
Totally…Gemini…
They have every right to enjoy ur company…and grandchildren too… My grandparents are the most loneliest people in the world with bcz of same separation stuff…my mum takes five hrs. Ride each month to help them when she herself is working… Its sad to go there…and see how “Baai” (my nani) always tries to learn Hindi from me or sis…so she could just spend her time someway, reading or hindi movies… But she just sits there…with her sore knees… Nd ..its bad…
People are different..issues are everywhere..how long can one possibly run from stuff thats not the way they wish… Settling and enjoying a experienced and loving hand over you…is a better thing…I can’t possibly understand the word “privacy”… Cz there has to be a limit to privacy…
And as for sick/frail/weak…I don’t think..people who can’t stay at happier times can stay when elders are erratic and needy…
Unless…In laws are actually bad…like they show in stupid drams..sbzi mein namak dalun …saari fadun types…I don’t think there is any need for being suars..
(And u get the will…eh…
…yay…
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