Gettiing married in 2 months!! *HELP & ADVICE needed*

[Reha]

Re: Gettiing married in 2 months!! HELP & ADVICE needed

@daizy1

I know and i have a really bad feeling about this marriage. But the problem is that my whole family is involved and according to our pakistani society, im “too old” already and now it´s time ( Im in my late 20s) . So this is my “last chance” or else i will end up with some divorced old man with kids. My family say that my “fiance” has a good family background, he´s educated and bla bla and im the one being silly. So let´s see what happens.

Thanks for the link

A bad feeling is usually a bad feeling for a reason…ignoring it is a bad idea. So do not.

Late 20s is nothing…I know people who have gotten married in their 30s with kids to people who have never been married before. These days, people waiting a bit to get married is not uncommon. One of my very close friends is a make up artist and she tells me that a growing number of her clients nowadays are women in late 20s and early 30s. This shows not only that there are women out there in your age group that are single but they’re also getting married.

Do Istikhara of course. Remember one thing, you can walk away from an engagement with a few people getting mad and shedding some tears - no permanent damage. But a divorce (khuda na khwasta) is not that easy. Its a legal, emotional and religious tie that takes much more to break.

I hope things work out for you.