get to know time?

Whats the right amount of time a guy should talk and meet a girl before deciding if he/she wants to marry. Like my sister, she and my brother in law just saw each other, talked briefly for couple of hours .. and got nikkahed - this happened in pak like 10 years ago lol.
I myself can’t imagine doing that. But I know another cousin of mine, she told me guys want to talk/get to know a girl for 4-6months before they make a decision … isn’t that too long? 1-2 months I think would be enough to know a person
And also guys are looking at multiple rishta at the same time - means talking to multiple girls? is that possible … how would you do that? I always though its 1 rishta at a time. Wouldn’t it be like dating 2 girls at the same time?

Re: get to know time?

Some people cant get whats in the book even after finishing it and some get the concept just by reading summary or preface.

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Re: get to know time?

Usually one good conversation is enough to know a person. Unless she is super hot and you can't think straight.