Re: Get to know him
Sara, there is no beghairti or besharmi when it has to do with your future. I don't see you, the girl from Queens, getting arranged married :-p Your other option is not necessarily love marriage...hence the thread.
Sadiyah, to ask someone questions, you should know what is important to YOU. Family values, religious values, traditonal values etc. and how the otehr person fits into them. How you priortize them and what things you can live with..what things you can't live with. You will get a good list of questions. Getting to know yourself is MORE important and it should be done prior to getting to know someone else.
I'd write more but gotta run..