Both of these posts of yours do not tells us what is missing from your life exactly. You say you are happy , you want more of happiness ? Confusing ![]()
From many responses above it seems like you are looking to make yourself more attractive to your husband. I do not think this is what you are looking for.
Does your husband show any signs of boredom ? You feel bored with routine of your life ?
Do You guys not do any fun activities together like watch a movie , read a book and discuss, go out for picnics , vacations , dine out , opera , museums , theaters , comedy shows. Don’t you sit and talk every now and then ? Do you have kids ? Do you pray namaz as a family unit ? Do you listen to some good Isalmic lecture and discuss. Do you invite others and go to visit other friends and family ? Do you guys have hobbies and discuss your hobbies ? If you do not have common interests then do you show interest in other party’s interest ?
Please remember married life is not a picnic it needs content maintenance and co operation of both spouces.
Here are some articles to read.
nzgirl - Has the romance gone flat?
This is a good site for married romance.
Married Romance
A good read :
A Happy Married Life
What does he think is important than those things ?