GOD SAKESSSS, its soo anooying when people dont actually say what the issue is, didnt the OP know that most peoples answers would be depends what he lied about.....we need to know what it is for us to be able to give a definite answer....
If he lied about her gender then it is definitely a deal breaker. If he wears women’s panties then it is not a deal breaker. You can both buy undergarments from the same store.
I can only speculate about what he/she lied about and advise you based on my assumptions.
THANK u to all who replied. Its definately made me think about everything and last nite a few more chats with him has made me realise that people’s intentions dont always reflect their actions. However im still going to give myself some time to think and make sure that the decision I make is the right one.
The impression i get from most replies is that the issues at hand would not be a deal breaker, but like another posted asked, yes i HATE any kind of hishonesty or sly behaviour.
Im sorry for not stating what really happened, but examples of what is/isnt acceptable has still been very helpful!!