You have just finished watching Shawshank Redemption for the 20th time. It was powerful and moving. Anyway you log on to GS and switch over to life one after cursing out the various idiots that annoy you on the various sub-forums of this website.
You happen upon a thread in Life1 with a title that intrigues you. Its by a woman who is complaining about her husband/boyfriend (take your pick) and the more you read into the wall of text (that crit you for over 9000!) it slowly dawns on you the situation is eerily similar the situation in real life. And the guy who is that evil low life may actually be you…or your twin with the same exact problems and the same exact situation.
Then you see all these women ripping into you. Some may or may not be women who you converse with on a regular basis.
The question is how do you react? Do you react in real life or on line in the forums? Do you let people know that it is you that they are ripping into? Do you let the females who are ripping you to shreds in public yet joke with you in pms know that you are the same person?
No its not about me. I have enough female drama in real life to actually have this happening as well.
why do you have to take all this online nonsense so seriously? Its just a part of life we choose to play via internet. And internet is basically information and entertainment. If you take it as more than that, well your choice. GS or anything else, plays a minimum role in my personal life for sure. For me its entertainment+information. Entertainment I get through enjoying interaction with other guppies here and sometimes only enjoying the way they interact with each other here. Information because you get to learn so much from different people's sharing of their experiences and situations. So its all completely harmless to me. Why would anyone sane and normal want the female or whatever internet drama extend to real life as well? Real life dramas are already sufficient for that cause. phew.
gross atleast take a shower after all that hot sex with jessica before dipping yourself into the hot tub with Monica…i have to tell you everything :hinna:
the problem is that whenever a woman does write her grievances here, CM do you see her bf/husband/SO/fiance as somebody that represents all men? do you see yourself as one of the good men on GS that are respectful towards their women or do you see yourself like some of the abusive men that some of these women write about? do you see yourself defending the men that are abusers/alcoholics/drug addicts/ones that inflict pain or control over a woman?
i think the problem is that you think that all men were raised with the same values and same environment as you were raised in which is not the case. and as mirage says we(men and women on GS) learn something from all these threads when handling our own situations in the nonvirtual world.
where are the women here ripping ALL men apart in the threads, of what i've seen of one side of your online personality CM ji, you're in the grouping of men, although imperfect like all humans, look out for women and wouldn't ever think of being abusive towards her...........right? so why feel the need to react or say anything in defense of all men, these threads rarely are a representation of all men
ps: yes my comment is long so i'm pretty sure you won't read it
” this would be one of those threads 
Christ?