Ugh, I so know what you mean. It's incredibly sad. I have only onw friend who I've never ever had a fight with, because we're both sort of like guys in a way. "Do i look fat in this?"
"Yes you do"
She's the only person I can say that to without it coming back. Normally when I'm honest with a friend she will go quiet and then weeks later out of nowehere bring it up. Sort of makes me understand why men find women so confusing!!
I've recently experienced the whole *****ing thing with someone I thought was a very dear friend for more than a decade. She's been the one I have turned to and confided in throughout my relationship, as my husband is foreign so my parents didn't approve (all good now though)
I found out that not only had she been going and telling my parents aaaal the things I confided in her, but she had been telling me complete lies and making up stories about things my family said about me and my husband. Since things are back to normal with my family I asked them "Why did you say those things" and they said ummm we never said any such thing. My mum was actually really upset that she made these things up, she treated her like another of her daughters.
I really don't understand why she couldn't be happy for me. Everytime she was successful or doing well I was truly happy for her from the bottom of my heart. I just don't get it. Why can't we women just treat each other well now and then!!!!