Re: Future wife & Hijab/Hair covering
Because guys and their families don’t want to limit their search by focussing only on girls who ALREADY do hijaab. They would rather consider every girl, and then ask the girl to do the hijaab because the guy and/ or his families want the girl this way. I also get such proposals where the guy and his family are very islamic, with the mother and sisters doing ninja hijaab and asking my mother that I would need to do hijaab after shaadi. I wonder why such mothers and sisters wouldn’t find a hijaabi girl in their own circle (they must have a social circle of like-minded people through sources like dars, quran classes etc).
I plan to do hijaab after a few years time but marrying someone on this condition doesn’t seem right to me. Hijaab should only be done when a girl wants it to do with her own willingness and not because she or her family wants her to get married.