Well I will start with one!
My father was enganged to a girl before he got married to my mother. She (they) were quite modern for that time. Well my father’s family used to live in a farm, where they had no toilets at that time and people used to go outside to the land to relieve themselves. My father was working in the city and living there alone and quite a stunning gentleman at that time. (have seen his pics)
I think they did the rishta, coz of his looks and job.
Well anyway, the girl and her family used to come to the farm to visit my father’s family on occasions.
His sister (my phuppos) were asked to carry a lota for her as she went to the land. (imagine them going behind her with a lota in the hand for her!!) LOL!
That and the talks bothered my phuppos so much, that they canceled the engangement.
Funny