My query Ana, :) thats what I asked in Emmo's thread from Fun. U make our life easier, dear. Plus, take into account PA's post too where the unspoken, hidden truth is presented in the form of an argument...
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*Originally posted by Roman: *
A Full/Complete woman is not different from a full/complete man.
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Therein u r wrong.
Women have a different set of criteria by which they judge other women to be complete, and men have a different set, which converges on one specific point with the women's set. I want someone to tell me what that point is.
^ O baba , that was my question na, why should I answer it. I am looking forward to the answers to this and particulary from those who susbscribe to this concept.
Ana jaani I just said it for the heck of having a third category... There is no such thing as a complete man or woman... you always lack one thing or the other be it in experience, wisdom, personality or anything else. You keep learning throughout your life and growing towards completion but probably never reach it.
I want a literal definition, not a subjective one.
Full figured mean voluptuous. Mermaid means water-based pari with fins. Complete means one who can be a mother. Isn't that right?
Both men and women will love people who are beautiful or caring or intelligent or witty or all of those but if u cannot pass on those genes and values to someone .. u are not complete. That's what the whole world says anyway.
It does Ana??? I think it is more vast than just that. Completeness is a relative term. What ranks at the top of my list of priorities may not be equally important to you.
Roman plz tell me, how do you manage to get so many wrong ideas all in one day?
Femme, do u honestly feel there is no one thing *important to each and every woman, no matter what social strata or background or country or culture she is from? *Nothing that every woman shares? Have I been living on the wrong planet?
Level of importance at different stages in life is not the issue, whether something has importance or not to all woman alike at some stage, is.
A complete woman........I guess everyone has their own idea of what is "Complete" to them in a woman. For example, if a man's criteria is only beauty, then, a beautiful woman is complete to him, even though she may not be educated or intelligent.
Ana producing children is not the sole purpose of being a woman. Several women choose profession over families even though they are capable of having babies. In our society(desi),however, that probably is what makes a woman complete. I couldn't pin point a single quality to define a complete woman though nor a complete man for that matter.
Thank u FF. "In our society" is the key phrase, and since we most of the time can't escape from our society, that's what defines what we are and how we are perceived.
Everything else is subjective and open to being relative, I agree with that.