Re: Full of advise looser.
We recently started socialising again and by Allah’s blessings we have a very nice circle of friends, we try very hard to surround ourselves with happy and positive people and avoid negative and bitter people like plague as I firmly believe that company of negative, bitter and misreable people can impact peoples lives in a very bad way. MA most of our friends have found success in all aspects of their lives, they are well placed financially, have awesome families and are kind gentle god fearing kind of people. One of the regular person has started bringing his older brother to the get togethers as his brother is completely broke and because of his bad behavior is unable to get employment, some times he does menial jobs like drive a cab, security guard, janitorial work ect. The problem is that his brother is extremely bitter and negative and a party pooper kind of a guy. He just loves to sit down and lecture people very overbearingly about how to live their lives, he gets extremely agitated when anyone has a difference of opinion with him.
I don’t mind taking advise from people with proven success, but here he is 40 yr old virgin, has no life skills, lives like a pig in dirt and filth, has no family and children, is dependent on family to support him and is shouting out advise about how to be successful in careers, how we should treat our wives and how to raise our children.
What should we do avoid going the the get togethers or should we approach our friend and tell him how his brother makes us feel.
Can you stop generalizing success? Also, you need to respect others opinion regardless of their financial status. Him giving you guys advise about how to raise a family might have came out since he doesn’t have one. I remember I used to give lectures on success in high school but that motivated me to pursue my goal. During that time, I wasn’t successful Some people like to preach so there is nothing wrong with that
… What is a looser? Oh you mean, loser?