i'll never like a gil who talks patter patter n discuss everything boldly when i go chk her as a prospect baho, bhabi. things should be discussed but slow n steady. on first few meetings only elders should talk n girl should quitely observe. u see more , acting as a third party. once families get close to some decision the girl n guy should hav some meetings of their own. no matter how openly u talk, how u question them or how many times u tell them ur likes/dislikes their real natures will reveal only after ur YES.
what makes you think that girl who talks patter patter, cant be humble, and modest?