Have u ever met someone that you befriended, then they turned out to be an ass, only wanting to ring their neck in the end. Then you really hated yourself for wasting time on that person?
I need to get away for a while. Its good to just get up and leave sometimes.
How do you deal with it? Do you spend your free time writing hate letters, or dreaming of how you’d like to slam their face next time you see them, or how to throttle them and then drive to Mexico?
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ive never had anyone like that, but ive befriended people who are new, and than they just leave me for someone better. its annoying, but their still nice to me..
and have you ever just met someone and you cant stand them... and its just like you wanna slam their face, but you've barely said 3 words to them.. ugh those people annoy the hell out of me.
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naah.. itna time kon zaya karay ga. u just leave them on their haal. i dont look back at them again. khamkha mein aisay logo k peechay apna dil jalana is just not worth it. aur kabhi itefaq say u meet them again, u just pretend u dont know them n ignore them completly.
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i cry for a while....forgive, forget n move on !!!
hoping thatGod will react to my shortcomings same way (minus the crying part of course)
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Tsk tsk tsk.
Rejections.
Abandonment by friends.
Being corrected on issues you cry and whine about.
Nobody listens to poor you.
Can’t be all of them. Must be you. 
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Luxy -- stop being so mean.
PCG uff I was replying tothe one in religion.
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Those religion mods - they’re slow when it comes to this, but God forbid someone opens a thread on Aisha’s age! It gets whisked away asap.
I love Code-Red. starry eyes
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Noooo. PCG no matter how sarcastic the above statement was its still creepy.Ok lets go get ourselves some new mods for the religion forum. 
ps ignore people who turn out to be such jerks. They were never meant to be your friends. its better you find what what they are really like.Trust me it is. A lot better than being fooled by their fake fickle friendships.
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Right, but wasting like 6 months on that person? 
I so will not be making any more deals to spend time with someone on such a regular basis.
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What about two years. 
Well dont punish the rest because of a few idiots pcg.Dont dwell over this. There ARE a lot of great people out there…just a bit on the rare side compared to how many idiots are around.
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Tell it like it is, sistah!!!!
Amen to that.
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yeap... ive met quite a few people in my life. But there is no point dwelling on it... take it as just another thing that needed to happen in ur life... its a learning curve.
People come in and out of our lives.. sometimes they leave good memories, sometimes not so nice ones.. but theres always a reason for meeting people.. even though we cant/dont understand why..
and yeah.. sometimes our closest friends drive us up the walls... in situations like that, I just listen with one ear and let it out the other.. and think of happy thoughts..
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Until a few months ago I was friends with someone since the age of 7 who was like that. Goodness, felt so good to get rid of her from my life,I've just completly cut off contact. The girl was a nightmare.
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^ how do u do that belle? interesting...
i dont really have anyone in my life like that but still :)
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Very carefully.
Sadzz, it was actually hard because I’ve known her family since I was 7, but ever since going off to university she become the type of person that made me extremely annoyed and not someone who I could see any use in being a friend with, she become very different, I’d rather just be distant from someone than be fake or develop hate for them. You know how it goes, you just distance yourself from them and than eventually it all ends.
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hmm yeah i did that with two girls... and it all just backfired (very recently too). I dont see the point of a friendship which is based on lies and just retarded stuff.. I actually dont want any more friends.. quite content with the circle i have.. hmm
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i just ditched this annoying girl while on a trip to S.F. she would follow me everywhere. i dont even know why she followed me i was never nice to her.
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I agree with MQ here :k:
it can be such a waste of time, but the trick is to find it out at an early stage. For me, I have a few strategies to get rid of these people. instead of abruptly stopping everything -which is not my nature-, the loss of contact should seem natural: have less and less contact, ‘forget’ appointments, make up night shifts etc etc
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^ it reminds me of pakistan, but ive only been to tijuana .. hahah
