From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Why is that the same features of personality that a guy found cute in his GFs’ become annoying after that GF becomes his wife?

For those ladies who had a love marriage, did you experience that with your hubby? Does he find your, errm, lets say giggling - annoying (or at least not that cute anymore)?

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Even if they did, do you think they'll admit it here?

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

ab kiya howa TLK bhai. :faizy:

j/k

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

why not?

That admittance is not an indication of a bad marriage.

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Meri shadi ko tou itna arsaa ho gayaa hai ke every trait of her is annoying now.

J/K :frowning:

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

we shud ask jr b who probably found that annoying ash giggles cute :halo:

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Yeah but such introspections can cause bad blood

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

I think if you overdo cute things, it becomes annoying.

Example of kids. They do a cute thing (unintentionally) and everyone laughs. But when they keep repeating it becomes a little bit annoying :|

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Ghar ki murghi daal barabar :chai:

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

In my personal opinion, BF may be a liar before marriage and never considerd those luby dovey/cuteness traits as reason of irritation.

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Oh no, Blessed2006 would be so unhappy after reading this

Its ok to focus on strength of your relationship but identifying the weaknesses is not too bad either.

Or maybe after marriage, more seriousness is expected so girlish attitude looks out of place?

are you calling Biwi, a murghi?

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

not married yet but I hope this doesn't happen to me :(

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

I dont agree. If he was a liar, why would he marry her?

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Emotion/Lust.

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

well our big fight is always about "y u make swish-swish noise ven you valk"

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

time 2 buy new shoes :cool:

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

god forbid somebody marry for love :(

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

Lust (or expression of it) is the most honest emotion.

all the halwa that you have eaten after marriage went down to your thighs I guess.

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

:rotfl:

Re: From Cuteness to being annoying ..

dude.. i've analyzed the noise down into contributing components, and even made a written list of at what hours and places the noise is acceptable and when it is absolutely intolerable. i also own ear plugs, but fear using them coz then i cant hear her coming at me with the belan or vuttevar..