*What makes friends different from family?
What qualities do you think are important in a friend?
How do you maintain a good friendship?
Do you make friends easily?
*What factors may result in the breakdown of a good friendship?
Has a friend ever let you down?if yes then share plz.
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i wrote soo much for this thread .. i accidently hit backspace when i was about to submit :(
I reply later .
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aww fbi ![]()
I hate it when that happens:bummer:
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Friends…hmmmm…friends make up the family that YOU choose for yourself..
The qualities I look for in a friend is honesty, loyalty..some1 who is always there for you..through the good and bad. Friends are those ppl in ur lives that you can tell anything to without having to fear being judged..or what they would think of you.
There are no set rules on how to maintain a friendship…
I am a very friendly person…but i do NOT make friends easily…I have very few ppl in my life whome I would call a friend. The rest I would call class mates, college mates, colleagues…I am a very private person..and I dnt like to share my life with too many ppl..so I avoid making too many friends…and I keep ppl at an arm’s distance…so that if their comes a time that I have to cut a connection, then I am able to do it easily.
Factors that can break-down a friendship…hmmm…what I have seen in my life…I travlled too damn much..and too often..so it was difficult to keep some friendships afloat..you kind of drift apart. And another thing I notice…when ppl fall in love..they tend to ignore their friends for a while…
I think that is normal…but there are some ppl who don’t understand it..so they feel that their friend has abandoned them…and it is normal for your friends to feel like that too…after all they are the ones who have been in ur life b4 the “other” person entered ur life. Being too possessive of ur friends can break a friendship too.
Yes..I had one friend who let me down…it hurt me a lot..it was in college…She went through the roughest time of her life during one of the semesters in college…even though I did not know the extent if her problems, I still spent all my time with her..ALL my time…finally she found a new boy friend..and as usual she started spending all her time with him..which was not the issue..I was happy for her..coz finally she was laughing again..but the issue became when he wouldn’t let her spend anytime with me at all..and one day he insulted me…and she did not say anything to him…so after that day..I never really tried to keep the friendship going…and I shut her out.
One thing that you have to know is…girl friends/boy friends come and go…but the ones who are their to pick up the broken pcs of ur heart when the love is gone are your friends..so never take them for granted. They are the family that you choose to be with..not the one that you are born into.
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You can choose your friends but can't choose your family.
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Aaj kal LP se sawaal hee sawaal ho rahe hain :aq:
The most important thing in friendship is loyalty and trust.
Without that, ANY close relationship let alone friendship would fail