What to do with friends are selfish? Its alway’s about them! They never care to ask, how ur doing etc.. They always brag about their problems, and you do listen to their problems and give them good solutions to it. But when it comes to your problems, they dont wanna listen, dont pay attention neither do they give good solutions! Are these selfish type of friends worth the “friendship”?? Do u let them know, that how selfish they are? How do u deal with them?
Re: Friendshi*
If a person only cares about themself (which a lot of ppl do these days) then u r wasting ur time...a friend is someone who can be there for u in good times and in bad. I don't know how long u have known the person for but sometimes people are just not good listners and don't know how help. Like I know someone who is the same way but I think don't they realize it.....I know they don't mean bad...but I guess they naturally are not much of advice giver. But I know that they do attempt to help out. I mean that still counts. Anywayz u might want to confront the person if u have known them for a long time and just ask them why they are like that. Sometimes it happens unknowingly.
Re: Friendshi*
:( :(
Re: Friendshi*
they are not worth it yar. Unfortuntelay the world is full of them. :)
Sirf kaam ho to ayenge. Nahin to na koi salaam ya dua. :)
Re: Friendshi*
Such people are never "friends". Selfish people are just selfish and dutch_paki said, this world is full of them. The best thing to do, or at leaste what I do, is avoid them. Salam dua rakho, but avoid them as much as you can and you shouldn't feel sorry about it.
Re: Friendshi*
they don't sound like friends. Well I hate people anyways, but I would never stick around for that kind of behavior. Move on, make new friends.
Re: Friendshi*
yeah there are these selfish pple out there. I usually avoid them or if a old friend is doing something like this, i let him/her know. but as pyaari83 said, many of them are not really advice giver. for instance, some of them might know something to help you out but they dont want to put themselve at risk if something goes wrong after you follow their solution.