Such lonely feeling when you realize most of your friends have used you and what u believed was true friendship was not even close to.
I have tried that so many times now that I dont feel like interacting with new ppl and make new friends. I dont know whats wrong. maybe I am too sensitive and maybe we are living in a world where the concept of true friendships dont exist:(
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I'm sorry you had some bad experiences. Maybe you're young. Are you a teen or in early 20's? You're probably experiencing immature and untrustworthy friends because they're young and stupid. It's the age of selfishness and ego. It takes time for most people to mature and realize the value of friendship and loyalty. I think you need to join a group where you meet people who share your interests. You're being overly sensitive about it. I'm sure you'll meet some genuine friends soon.
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awww chameli that really sucks. but don’t give interacting with people, cause trust me when you find that one person (other then a spouce) who knows you so well, and is willing to be your friend no matter, its the best feeling. Besides i always believed that its better to have a few really close friends then a whole bunch of so so ones. Good luck hun, and feel better 
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I so agree with you, recently I have been realizing that too but then I think that maybe somewhere in there it was my fault too.
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You are right. Its not that easy to find true friends.
Its so simple when we are kids but the same people turn out so different they become adults. Still keep your hopes up. We still have so many nice people around. YOu just need to look for it. But remember one thing that the more sensitive you are, more difficult it is. Sometimes we should just let things go and ignore em.
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chameli u r right i also sometime had the same feeling,as whenever i get anygood person they left the place where i am .There are so many families around me but i hardly get only one or two to be sincere and they know the meaning of friendship,mostly now peoples are changed all i feel are mean and usually i saw status consious ,anyway realy ifeel too hard to get a good friend.
i always hasitate to look forward to someone for friendship as dont know whethere they like to be my friend or not.
anyway true frinds are realy a blessing of God.if anyone get them he is very lucky person .
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I am not a teenager. I am 26. and all my friends are older than me meaning they shud be much more mature than me but unfortunately they behave like teenagers and I feel used by them. they loose contact with me for long but when they need me, they get in touch.
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Chameli tis OK, hey life is about learning, and you learned something, all the best.
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I’ve had some bad experiences with my so-called friends aswell.. I know how it feels. But i got over it. I know who my real friends are now.. you really get to know who your real friends are when you’re in the middle of a difficult situation. Some people don’t have the guts to stick around with you, but the ones who do stick with you..are your real friends. Hope everything works out for you..
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Chameli420: It is easier to find fault with the others but most of the time part of the problem is usually our own self.
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hmm yeah I know I am very sensitive person and have very high expectations to my friends. Of same reason I do everything possible for them, and since I dont get same back i get dissapointed. so i guess i better stop being so emotional.
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Shweatdreamz are made of it...
Everybody is lookin for somethin... :D