If you found out something one of your close friends had done, and it was really bad, would you still want to be friends with them?
Maybe not an illegal thing, but something you find morally reprehensible/unforgivable, even though it was done to someone else and not you?
Would you be able to just stay out of the whole thing otherwise?
Yes i will be. For me drug, alcohol is a deal breaker. I don't like being friends with people like that. Other than that..i wouldn't care much!
^drugs are a deal-breaker for me but if it's in the past, it's in the past.
Yes, I distanced from her. Now, after 8 years, I regret it...it never shouldve been a big deal. I now believe that you cant just decide to come into someone's life whenever you want to and leave whenever you want. I also look over even the biggest mistakes by my friends now.
No problem for me! I have multiple type of friends, naik shareef for them people say “7 Dhiyaan Wargah Munda” and , Civilized who never abuse and Gangster type who start talk with an abuse
If they are good with me then why should i leave them :cobra:
If only everything was as simple as clicking a button to 'unfriend' someone, eh?
LOL unfriending is never simple. Honestly I don't think I have ever been able to unfriend anyone (fully), for whatever any reason :/............be that good or bad
A wise person once told me something that changed my life for the better - Dont get involved in a conflict not involving you unless one of the affected parties asks for your help.
If the friend's actions were in the past and did not involve me, I would not hold it against him. There are some exceptions of course - axe murderer etc.
There are two type of mistakes, once he is truly remorseful for i would let it go. But one he has no sense of remorse that would be certainly worth taking note we must careful dealing with the person.
I know someone who is not only responsible for huge embezzlement at his company, also have sexual relationship with the lady who did this. But so far has not sense of regret and instead of feeling sorry for the company (which he helped bring down) cursing his ex-boss for sack him.
I am sure i would still meeting with him outside home, but certainly not inviting in family setting.
Well true past is past. If they are good and nice to me..why should i not be friends with them. I am really good friends with this sikh girl. She used to take drugs long time ago because of her abusive past and all. And now..masha'Allah she is one of the brightest girl ever!.
and Gangster type who start talk with an abuse 