omg - i literally fell off my chair reading that. you are too funny aisha 
you have a very unique personality. ok iâm done being sentimental 
AishaaâŠvery cute sense of humorâŠtilda basmatiâŠthat is really funny i swear ur too good. 
i am trying so so so very hard to see y that guy wanted to marry u and y he is still after u. may allah guide him on a path away from u. ameen
well i didnt really read the whole threadâŠbut i just wanted 2 say tht yea its trueâŠu can NEVER b friends w/ ur exâŠi mean how can u even b comfortable around tht personâŠand ppl who can actually b friends w/ their ex..well u must have some patience⊠:k:
Nah, you are even better than 911 
Again I am extremely confused. Just because you were involved with an individual of low calibre, it is now the fault of all men that you did something stupid? Wow...talk about blame displacement.
Sir Galahad
Yaar let these girls complain and whine, that shows us why men treat them that way and whoâs at fault. Those poor souls are so insecure that they blame everything on men 
Somebody got dumped 
Re: friends with an ex
This shows you care! 
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Again I am extremely confused. Just because you were involved with an individual of low calibre, it is now the fault of all men that you did something stupid? Wow...talk about blame displacement.
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the guy was a ******* and nowhere here does it say taht it was her fault.
The guy happened to be the loser becasue she was a girl in a hetro relationship, if she had done likewise and the guy was here complaining really it wouldve made no difference.
Why do all of youmen have such complexes about your gender.
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Again I am extremely confused. Just because you were involved with an individual of low calibre, it is now the fault of all men that you did something stupid? Wow...talk about blame displacement.
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Oh.My.God. Wow u should be a psychologist, ur a genius..no really i swear
A wise person once said, "don't speak about something you know nothing about."
So I will keep my mouth shut. :D
Shikra, complaining is one thing; stupidity is another. I just don't tolerate stupidity. Insulting one or blaming a gender for the actions of one individual is very much a facist zone of mind like racism and nazism.
Hiccup, if the guy was such a creep why was she even in a relationship. It takes to tango. It is never one person's fault.
Hiccup, is it men who go around whining about gender related issues and insult lone individual across the internet for no apparent reason other than the fact they can not insult the low calibre men in their own lives?
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Shikra, complaining is one thing; stupidity is another. I just don't tolerate stupidity. Insulting one or blaming a gender for the actions of one individual is very much a facist zone of mind like racism and nazism.
Hiccup, if the guy was such a creep why was she even in a relationship. It takes to tango. It is never one person's fault.
Hiccup, is it men who go around whining about gender related issues and insult lone individual across the internet for no apparent reason other than the fact they can not insult the low calibre men in their own lives?
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sir , im simply saying dont turn this into a gender war when it isnt. Its a complex issue reguarding someone elses relationship so who are we to place blame.
Aisha posted this to vent, let her.
Does venting include insulting the male gender and various male individual across the internet?
yes 
Hmm..i think its possible to be friends with ur ex but
sometimes i think feelings also play a roll.
Coz once u loved that person a lot. Uhmmm about divorce issue
if i divorced of my hubby ( I hope not) and i have kids wid him
i stay good with him but friends wid him NO i dont think i can do that.
And if i dont have kids with him and i divorced him then i will go my
own way and leave him lead his own way.
So if I were by any chance wanting to vent here I would be allowed to insult all the women I wanted?