Evaluate your friendship. Are they really your friends?.
Have you ever given them a reason to feel insecure with you and your happiness? Think about it.
At times what happenes is that we only focus on what is happening but forget to do a lil analysis for what could be the reasons and if we r in any way part of those reasons. Many a times what happens is that you don't realise that you could be giving out any signals that may make your friend or whoevr it is feel uncomfortable with you. So that could always bring that negative vibes from them.
- Could it be that the fact that their are not happy theirself hence they find it hard to share your happiness? i know thats not right but at the end of the day we r talking abt human beings and they r capable of such behavior.
For example: You may be totally excited at getting a new job but your friend may not be able to enjoy yr happiness with you cuz she wasnt able to get a job? U know what i mean. That kinda thing often makes people react this way though i strongly beileve you get what ur destined for nt being happy for someone who got what u wanted is not gonna do any good to u.
Lastly, if it really bothers u then by all means talk to yr friends about it. Let this not be a cause of animosity between you guys. Talk over it and try solve the issues responsible for this behavior frm yr frnds.
Good luck.
I get what you are saying.
I know why my friends would be protective over me and I understand that. But, what they need to understand is that they are still holding onto MY past which I have moved on from and have started to travel on a different path.
Everything I do is linked to my past and it just gets fustrating and I get tired of telling them and proving to them that it's OVER!
Now that years have passed and I'm actually happy, they have to again question it and can't be happy for me? I've tried talking to them, but I'm not the type of person to argue, it's drains energy and I don't have that in me to argue because everytime I try to make them realize by talking, it just leads to my past again and I just get fed up and feel that it is better to just stay quiet.
I'm honestly starting to think that things are, masha'Allah falling into place for me and they have become envious over it. I hate to think that but I'm left with nothing else to think or assume because I've tried dealing with it in every possible way.
Get what I'm saying?