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Evaluate your friendship. Are they really your friends?.
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Have you ever given them a reason to feel insecure with you and your happiness? Think about it.
At times what happenes is that we only focus on what is happening but forget to do a lil analysis for what could be the reasons and if we r in any way part of those reasons. Many a times what happens is that you don’t realise that you could be giving out any signals that may make your friend or whoevr it is feel uncomfortable with you. So that could always bring that negative vibes from them.
- Could it be that the fact that their are not happy theirself hence they find it hard to share your happiness? i know thats not right but at the end of the day we r talking abt human beings and they r capable of such behavior.
For example: You may be totally excited at getting a new job but your friend may not be able to enjoy yr happiness with you cuz she wasnt able to get a job? U know what i mean. That kinda thing often makes people react this way though i strongly beileve you get what ur destined for nt being happy for someone who got what u wanted is not gonna do any good to u.
Lastly, if it really bothers u then by all means talk to yr friends about it. Let this not be a cause of animosity between you guys. Talk over it and try solve the issues responsible for this behavior frm yr frnds.
Good luck.