Would you be ok if your significant other has a lot of friends of the opposite gender? Would you be ok with them texting/calling/meeting up regularly?Where would you draw the line?
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It’s fine as long as there are clear boundaries. Texting/calling is fine as long as it isn’t excessive, ie constant contact throughout the day, or late at night without reason. I’d also insist on meeting these friends at least once, so they know I exist.
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Perfectly fine. Me and my spouse both have friends from opposite gender and none of us have an objection to it. Though, one need to have certain limits i.e. no continuous texting/calls 24/7 and sharing of every minute details of your married life with them but then that’s not only with friends from opposite gender, the rules are same from friends of same gender as well.
Few of my male friends doesn’t approve of their wives meeting their male friends one to one and neither do they meet any of us female friends on one to one basis separate after marriage. group gatherings and hang outs are fine with them.
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I’m not okay with it and neither is he. I’m not insecure or something, but the thing is: we also started as ‘just friends’ 
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lol, no.
He can have work colleagues (“friends”) and acquaintances but there’s no need to be buddy buddy with some other girl. She can be OUR friend. 
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This sounds so dirty 
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Your hubby will be one lucky guy 
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Damn girl, i like how you think 
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Glad I’m not the only one who noticed that.
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Lmaooo @Illuminate I am sure you didn’t mean it this way but the emoji at the end make it seem so wrong. 
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I noted that but did not want to be the 1st to point out
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Or does she 
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Fair enough :D.
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We shall find out soon enough. 
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The moment you start hiding those texts/calls/meetings from your significant other. That’s when you have crossed the line.
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Exactly!
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I don’t have any issues with a partner having friends in both genders. In fact, I’d find it odd if he had no female friends!
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LOOOOOOOOL ya’ll are so jokes. I didn’t even think of it when I was typing it. I think yesterday my mom was calling me for dinner and instead of re-reading the post I just posted it.
And no you sickos not what you think it means. jeez. I am so the shareef one on this forum. let’s just keep it that way. kthnxbye
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Yeah right.
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omg…let’s not derail OP’s thread here.