friends from Net

[kuri_kamal_ki]

Re: friends from Net

@_Iraj

itni thori baat say nahin pata chalta kisi ka

lol tht was exactly wht i said to her…

@Aashi

:nono:

i wudnt trust him…

if they had knows eachother for like 2 yrs then yeh maybe with a friend…but not in few weeks…NONONONOOOOOOOOOOO…

sumjho lurkiyo…its wrong…u shudnt jump into things like that…i know the urge is there, the sleepless nights and all…but becareful please…b VERY carefull…

u know wht it is aashi…when i spoke to her bout this all she said like…i don’t know wht to do…he is the first boy who is really "gentle"and when i said may be it’s a trick she ws like noo cauz he has told her the truth..lekin yeah i don’t get the oint..how can she say tht wht he’s sayin is the truth…i also told her to be carefulll

@Maham S

Hi Kuri!

I believe not all guys are the same but still i would not advice your friend to go out with this guy at this stage. Tell her to take it slow and when she goes out on her first date with the guy she should take some1 with her. Fine, i understand he is acting like a responsible, sensible n nice guy but one never knows what lies behind all those nice things esp when it comes 2 net. I hope you understand what i am saying.

@Munni

I speak from experience. Tell your friend not to meet him. Tell her to tell the guy that she is going to tell her parents about him and see what his reaction is. It is very clear that two people shouldnt be meeting like that (I dunno if they are muslim or not). But either way, its not safe at all. Unless she takes her mom or brother along.
Some guys know exactly what to tell a girl and then will use this to their advantage. I’m not saying he is one of them but its better to be safe.
And I speak from experience, which has taught me to abstain from such things/meetings.
Tell the parents, it is so much safer and better that way. And intentions can easily be seen when parents are involved.
Whether she takes this advice is her deicison. What is important is that you advise her the correct thing.

U know wht the thing is…she says tht he doesn’t want anything yet…he’s telling her not to rush etc…us ne to kissi rishte ke bare mein abhi us se kuch kaha nahee hey…lik ebf gf or some thing…he’stalking just normal to her…and he told her by him self to bring a friend with er when they will meet or the first time…and she told him tht she has really stickt parent and strickt brothers…he was like we aren’t doin some thing wrong and we won’t do it …i thing she personally doesn’t exept much of thiis…may be it’s just a kind of time pas???..btw she is pakistani and he too…and btw he doesn’t give her any hope forthe future…and she neither…so wht u guys think now???

i mean when she told me tht he said to take a friend along for the first meeting i was shocked i mean commonnn a boy askes a girl not to come alone is really rare…lekin yeah it can be a game…confusionnnn wht to say wht to thinkkkk