I think the problem comes when a woman thinks she only got educated to do a job!
I am educated and want to be a home-maker does that mean my education will go to waste? for women , their education is not all about developing careers but more to do with the fact that an educated woman will raise her kids in a very polished environment ...
Good rishta's are very hard to find these days , thats a fact ... so I personally feel she would be really dumb , if she refuses a perfect rishta just on the basis of the fact that he wouldnt let her do the job! Most women end up not working anyways after having a baby ...
I am not against women having careers ... before the shadi , I say women should work as it can transform ones personality in a huge way... but husband, family and home should become the focus of a woman after marriage ...