Friend needs support.I need rest

[hareem01]

Re: Friend needs support.I need rest

@Chameli420

Its not just one or two text messages. It can up to 20-30 messages a day describing her tension regarding her brother’s marriage, how he use abusive language to her, how he treats his wife, how her bhabhi comes over crying at her place when she was planning to relax and rest her time off, how her in-laws mentions stuff about having kids and the list is loooooooooooong.

I have been there for her for the past many years trying to comfort and told her to take a stand. she is an intelligent woman and it bothers me that she vitimize herself when she sends me all these text messages.

like she has to discuss every single detail with me before making a decision which is cute when u r sixteen but she is 30+ and need to make her own decisions and stand firm on them.

I guess my feelings are a bit dual here. on one hand I do want to support her but on issues that really matters and on the other hand I truely need rest these days due to my own condition.

she is one of the few friends who knows about my pregnany and even when I tell her that what she just told me about her bro is giving me high BP she just says dont stress about it and continues sending me messages.

perhaps I shouldnt reply rightaway and give myself some space…she will understand that I need space and she can plan her daily life without having to involve me in every single thing…

Stay away from her please.