Re: friend advice
Hmmm - sorry to say this, but sounds like your friend isn't being receptive to you. You need to be firmer, and just let her be upset, and let her know that it is upsetting to YOU when she does this.
It kind of sounds a little like your friend is being selfish. I don't know her, so I may be getting the wrong impression here, but that's how it comes across to me.