Re: friend advice
no she does not like this guy, at least he's not her first choice. she likes another guy who she is seeing right now. she does not bad mouth him. sorry for not being clear about that one. all she does is complain about how he keeps talking to her and she cannot get her work done. she whines and whines and whines some more about how she has this and that to do and this guy won't let her finish it because he called or left a message or emailed. of course she will never explain why she even bothers to take his calls/messages. and i have tried, for many years now actually, to get her to either quit or stop complaining to me. it's just that she gets really upset if i tell her that i am not interested in listening to her, and so i always end up grinding my teeth and giving her my attention. it's gotten to a point where i feel like avoiding my friend just so i don't have to hear her complain about this guy :(