Re: friend advice
maybe she's keeping him as a backup
maybe she likes the attention he gives her cus she's prob not getting it from anyone else at the moment?
who knows
either way.. tell her that if she speaks to him and he does not speak ill of her, than she really needs to stop badmouthing this guy.
All she is basically doing is backbiting which is not a very pleasant trait to have.
She should confess her undying love for him... or just quit badmouthing.
Simple