if ur a girl n ur hone wala husband and his family knew that ur mother did not prefer the marriage to be there.. doesnt think much of them ..doesnt really like the guy or his family.. n they figured this out bcs they r not stupid .. would this make u anxious or nervous going into the marriage at all ? .. should this be something for the girl to be wary about or is this more common than i think in our paksitani society?..
so basically should the girl worry n anticipate any type of annoyance or hositility from her husband n sasural once shes married? ..(say right now they r showing that they r very understanding n sweet about it .. but deep down inside who knows ?..n say they r really sharp minded..they understand everything but they just dont say anything n dont really show much emotion on the outside)
they may be the shareef kind and even though they understand it all, choose not to say anything cuz nothing can be changed... why fuss over something like that...
OR
they do a 180 and make life hell for the girl once the marriage is complete.. baath baath per taana?
only time will tell :)
but its high time for mommy of the girl to start being shareef or atleast try for the sake of her daughter.
mommy is pisssed off .. at her daughter n her husband n the future in laws ..she will neverrrr change .. she said she wants nothing to do with her daughter after she is married n for her to get the hell out of her life .. so mommy does not really care about her daughter to do anyting for her sake ..
n those people know thats she was not agreeing n trying to get her daughter married somewhere else .. even after her dad gave them green light form his side .. they know everything .. they know that dad had to convince her big time for her just to agree .. but theyr still so respectful n nice to her
It may just be that the family is understanding and is willing to let go of everything. If someone is faking these kids of things most of the time it shows in their attitude somewhere. I wouldn't get that stuck in my mind unless I notice something different in their attitude. If they are aware of it chances are they are just trying to avoid having any kind of misunderstanding at this point.
mommy is pisssed off .. at her daughter n her husband n the future in laws ..she will neverrrr change .. she said she wants nothing to do with her daughter after she is married n for her to get the hell out of her life .. so mommy does not really care about her daughter to do anyting for her sake ..
well, has the girl really taken time to look into what it is the mother really does not like about these people, or what it is about them that does not satisfy her?..and why does she prefer her daughter to marry some other guy she has chosen.
if the mom is not being irrational for absolutely no reason, and just in zid, then thats a diff thing. but if theres a real reason she does not like these people..then i think the daughter should listen to what he has to say about it.
In my opinion, normally no one like a Rishta when everyone is not happy.
In case of forced Rishta because children in love with each other, then if unhappiness is at girls parents it would not be a big issue is after all she is going to stay with those who are happy with her.
Only thing may be guy or his family would not visiting girl side as often, hopefully relations could improve with they see their daughter is happy in her susral.
But if the guys family is not happy with the Rishta i would say stop it.