So I’m a few weeks away from the wedding and I’m beginning to completly freak out about the whole thing. On the outside I look super calm and stress free but inside I’m like arghh! Like worrying I’ve made the right decision, the enormity of marriage is just hitting me. It’s FOREVER! And all the responsibilities and new family. What if I’m not up to the challenge?!
Tell me this is normal?!
Going to hyperventilate…pass me a paper bag 
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that makes two of us lol
but i guess , every1 faces this issue .... offcourse its a bigggg step , which u realize only when ure about to get married ,,,,
its like , r u sure ? damn sure ,, veryyy veryy sure lol
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Its normal. Keep yourself calm And busy.
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You're not alone. My wedding is less than 3 weeks away....and I already am having bad sleeping patterns. I toss and turn in bed for hours every night, cannot fall asleep easily, and end up waking early in the morning too. I have slight dark circle under my eyes :(
For me, I'm also moving to another country shortly after the wedding so it's 2 things hitting me at once and I'm super nervous and freaked. I find myself thinking whether I have what it takes to be a good partner and it scares me...I'm afraid I'll get angry or say something I don't mean to (I'm sometimes stupidly emotional like that) to my hubby-to-be and make things sour, lol. I mean...it's just little things that panic me. Also, just wondering how I'll be able to manage an independent life (i've always lived with my parents). Anyway, tons of fear, stress, nervousness and nostalgia....it's so many emotions all piled up.
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I don't know what I'd be like if I was moving country!
I go to bed exhausted but still can't sleep and I'm like you that when I do sleep I wake up super early! I need my beauty sleep at the moment :( I dont want to be too stressed to enjoy the wedding. Because I am happy and I don't want this time to go by with negative emotions.
Sighhhhhh....
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o h n o :(
m i gona be like this ? im already sucha hyper - super psyched person in normal circumstances !!!
I am not only moving to pakistan and leaving my family behind in dubai but my lil 5 yr old baby brother i cant live without .. waaiinnn!!
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@aaliyah ... dont take it as a challenge .. if your in laws are nice and deserve it take them as your own family .. like pretend theyre from your khandan .. talk to your fiance a lot .. meet him ? as long as you knw someone is by ur side - things get a lil easier ..
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oh goodluck! InshAllah it'll be fine! Just believe in yourself and you'll be able to do everything!!
@flawedsoul, im sort in the same position as you! Im moving to a different city, im the first person in my extended family moving to another city! even though i still have 6 months to go, im still so nervous, imagine leaving your whole family behind, living with someone new! Just thinking about it gives me worries!! aahhhh
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You're not alone. My wedding is less than 3 weeks away....and I already am having bad sleeping patterns. I toss and turn in bed for hours every night, cannot fall asleep easily, and end up waking early in the morning too. I have slight dark circle under my eyes :(
For me, I'm also moving to another country shortly after the wedding so it's 2 things hitting me at once and I'm super nervous and freaked. I find myself thinking whether I have what it takes to be a good partner and it scares me...I'm afraid I'll get angry or say something I don't mean to (I'm sometimes stupidly emotional like that) to my hubby-to-be and make things sour, lol. I mean...it's just little things that panic me. Also, just wondering how I'll be able to manage an independent life (i've always lived with my parents). Anyway, tons of fear, stress, nervousness and nostalgia....it's so many emotions all piled up.
where are you moving to? I might also have to move from one end of the world to the other and that is just freaking me out :(
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Hmm…well, it doesn’t have to be FOREVER if you change your mind later on… 
Just kidding. 
Relax! This is very normal. I was also totally freaked out in the final weeks leading upto the wedding (although about other things). You’ll be ok. Have faith in yourself and your family (I’m sure they helped you decide on that marriage).
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geez i feel the same!
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I'm a September bride inshAllah.. the emotional moments have begun. I can't bear the thought of leaving my family and house in 3 months :(