I know what you mean. Even it hasnt sunk in with me that I am getting married. I am just getting on with my day to day life. Just last night me and my husband (to be!) were talking on the phone about money and want he wants to do in his life. He said he wanted to start a business and he wants me to help him. Conversations like this make me feel so so happy that I have someone in my life to share EVERYTHING with. I am his rock and he is mine. He was also quite upset about something yesterday on the phone and the thought that he cannot talk to anyone about this problem, apart from me makes me feel so needed and wanted and makes me realize how much of an effect I have on his life. When I think about this, then all the stuff about the wedding and the stress associated with it becomes obsolete. I realize that I dont want the stress, and I dont want anything else, i just want to be with him, wedding or no wedding. We have done Nikah and as far as I am concerned a wedding isnt ness. I just wanna be with him, simple as that.
that is very sweet....by reading how you both feel about each other, you will be just fine :) consider yourself lucky :) so just take time to relax and enjoy your time until the big day