Forgiving

Have you ever forgiven someone just because you don’t wanna lose them in your life, although they don’t even deserve your forgiveness?

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yes :(

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Aww.

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If we don't want to lose them from our lives, this means that they deserve our forgiveness. Any person whom we love and do not want to lose does deserve our unconditional love and forgiveness. We just have to forgive and ignore the things which our loved ones do and they do the same for us.

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:k:

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As good as it sounds to believe, i wouldnt agree with it. Sometimes you just love someone for no valid reason actually, they could have done you bad but you feel that love for them which makes no sense but its there. Mostly it can only be for family or blood ties but even that doesnt make sense but it does happen i have experienced it quite close.

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For the people who I like to have in my life, I move on. I dont let it reach to the point where i have to "forgive" them and have them live rest of the life under the shadow of forgiveness.

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Nope, I forgive only if I mean it.

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no

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By the time I think of forgiving, they are already dead :hinna:

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What's "deserved" must be earned..

People forgive not because they deserve it but because they are emotionally weak without them..

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i do NOT forgive anyone under pressure of any kind. i do it from the kindness of my heart and for the love of Allah but i do NOT forget because i wanna be careful with that person in future. :)