Forgiving Past Adultery

[ZareenKhan]

Re: Forgiving Past Adultery

@R.A.W

Such matters are easily commented upon but really difficult to actually face and deal with in real life. One cannot tell now (while in a calm mood), to what extent one’s emotions/anger would drive him/her in those sudden mind boggling moments (May Allah never show that day to even my worst enemies). Naturally, one would feel being used/deceived/lied to…etc. Children and the level of his/her usual daily life dealings / relationship / mutual bond / manners / respect / commitment with family would play a great role in deciding if s/he deserves to be forgiven or not. (if the traces of that incident are still (evidently) there in his/her personality than leniency is difficult).

^ This!