Forgiving Parents

[sweetpip]

Re: Forgiving Parents

@Fbi786

You too will be a mother one day ..then we ll see what happens.. try being a parent ..put yourself in their shoes …

then have the audacity to not forgive .. forgiveness issue does not even come into the picture .. no matter how your parents are or how they treat you .. your still their daughter and theyyour parents .. whatever they said …they qill answer for it to Allah but to say you dont forgive them .. thats not how it works .. its very shameful to even discuss actions of parents ..

Just to mention a hadith of the Prophet SAW that a woman come to the prophet SAW and asked that her mother was a non muslim .. and how she was suppose to treat her .. the Prophet SAW replied .. you treat her the way a daughter is due to treat her ..

so my question to you is .. have you been the daughter that your supposed to be ? maybe thats where the problem lies and now your parents had to come to this length.

FYI I have not done anything to cause this - I am not even in a relationship if your issue is that I might be having a relationship outside of marriage. Even my own grandmother and the wider family agree that I did not deserve to be treated in this way.

I would never treat my child in the way that I have been treated. Its the worst pain ever and I could not ever inflict that pain on anyone, let alone my own child!!