Forgiving a Spouse

If ur husband ended up cheating on u with ur close family member would you forgive him ( their kids involved)?

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No.

There are very very few things I truly care about and seek in life and loyalty is the most important of them. It doesn't matter who the other person is.

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what if he married someone other and told you later or just told you but not get approval?

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Is that question directed to me?

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you mean married the same women he had an affair with? That would prove how much he love's his 1st wife I think if it was me I would probably throw a fit and if he sincerely repented and never did it again I'd let it go that one time but then I hear once a cheater always a cheater so I think maybe my throwing a fit wouldn't make a difference. So wouldn't that make a women just feel insecure on what was missing? or would she just forget and go on with her life pretending it never happened, because of the kids maybe.

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Nope.

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NO WAY! BUT i am not the one who is married and who knows what it takes to work a marriage and what sacrifices one has to make so i may be the wrong person to pass a judgement here. As i know alot of married women and even men make alot of sacrifices to keep a marriage going. Don't know whethere some are good enough reasons to do so but only the one involved in the situation can judge it.

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Yes sure.

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i can forgive , it is not possible for me to forget

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if

spouse=husband …never

else

spouse=wife…always

:rolleyes:

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true :(

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At least that is what they peddle in the media.

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Haha.

A wife would deserve just as much stick as the husband if she were to forgive such a scumbag!!!

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Am i missing something here?! :chai: Isnt it usually the other way around :asa:

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:fatee: …got it?

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:nahi:

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no but i wouldn't leave him either.

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then whats the 3rd option :konfused:

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Forgiv n forget is the best policy for all

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but wudnt that make life so hard? living with someone whom u have not forgiven?