GipsY
December 26, 2008, 8:38pm
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Years ago I do had habit to say every one please forgive me. (just thinking I might hurt him or her feelings without any reason).One of my principal always asked me why! you are saying this? I know you are a nice person and not doing any worngfull act why are you asking people for forgivince I said I feel better that if in “anjany” I hurt someone. But, Now I am thinking he was right. I lost ability to make arguments in my defence and Later in life I have learned that this type of behavior took me there where people were treating me as a zalim & I was mazloom there and jut because of my nature I wasn’t able to argu with others even for right things.when you are saying forgive me in every day life that means you plead guilty for other people:fifa: My opinion is this that if you think you need to ask or you really hurt some one do that otherwise, for me it’s just for nothing. For formality you know some times I hate formalities:DNow I like to be a zalim really If God is going to forgive all Muslims sinners even they commit adultery , rape and other serious crimes. Hopefully I will be in his list of "muafi pane wale"InshaAllah.(Adultry or rape tu jaisy huqooqullIbad main nahi aty log aisy kerty hainD: Allah sab bakhash dy ga bas huququibad nahi bakhshy ka:hehe:) Susral walon ko sir ankhon per bitha lo larki bakhshi jao gi:hoonh:Abby on ko tu…
I hav been ur type person in past.And same thing happnd 2 me.we jst ignore ppl nd they say waeva they like as u said mazloom i agree wiv it. But now i hav turnd aftr suffring couldnt found bettr result so turing zalim really works.