So guys, do you forgive instantly no matter what happened or takes times to forgive or dont forgives??
What do you mean by forgiveness?
The forgiveness where you ask Allah (swt ) not to punish the other person for whatever they did to you ? Or is it something else??
I do the former within a few hours max.
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Yes, the forgiveness where you ask ALLAH.. 
nice to know that.. MashaALLAH.. :k:
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Yes, the forgiveness where you ask ALLAH..
nice to know that.. MashaALLAH.. :k:
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Sometimes it’s difficult to forgive. At those times, ask Allah (swt) to make it easy for you to forgive and make dua for the other person. It helps you move past it and forgive.
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Jee..
I usually forgive within minutes, but yesterday I forgave someone after almost 2 weeks..
**I think people really need to understand their own mistakes too before getting into forgiving others…So when someone asks for forgiveness, remember your sins too…This will help you forgiving others…
Nobody is an angel…So if forgiving them makes you feel out of the world, then u r in some real trouble for yourself…
Even if its a choice to forgive or not, its the best choice to have…And by forgiving them, it means clearing your heart from any type of evil towards them…**
Not really very soon but it will take some time to forgive it..
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So guys, do you forgive instantly no matter what happened or takes times to forgive or dont forgives??
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Good question. I also wonder sometimes how different beings behave on this matter.
I find “no matter what” as the key variable. first of all who are we (humans) not to forgive. When we seek forgiveness ourselves to the almighty. So its definitely not our right. But yes sometimes you are so much hurt that it becomes very difficult to forgive instantly. So it takes time but eventually you get over it and let it go. And it should always be completely fogiven in the end if not forgotten
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So guys, do you forgive instantly no matter what happened or takes times to forgive or dont forgives??
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I always try my level best k ALALH per chorh don if someone kuch b bura karta hay meray sath
and ALLAH ki raza k laiye lougo ko foran muaaf kar daita and sometime it take 2-5 days not more than that …
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